Tolerance.

I've been involved in an online discussion regarding tolerance. Here's what I think:

Tolerance is, IMO, basic. It's being civil. Its very definiton is this:

1. The capacity for or the practice of recognizing and respecting the beliefs or practices of others.
2.
a. Leeway for variation from a standard.

In this age, i think that Christians have a responsibility to lead holy lives. But we do NOT have the right to insist that others do what we say. I think that's the worst way to show people God's grace and mercy. And I think Satan runs rampant when we think that because we have certain moral standards, everyone should fall in line.

I mean, living in Utah--do you know how many times mothers at the park have gathered their children to leave when the kids and I show up? And it's not because my kids are poorly behaved. It's always on the days when I'm wearing a tank top, or shorts, or wear my cross necklace. Are they being tolerant?? I guess, in the sense that they're letting my kids play at the park while they hastily pack up and leave, not acknowledging me or responding to my greeting. Are they showing love? Kindness? Nope. I imagine they're terrified that my children will corrupt theirs.

I think that we need to teach our children our values. And let them be exposed to the world, in a developmentally appropriate manner, of course. If we insulate them, they're going to be shocked when they finally get out into reality. But if we integrate them from the beginning with people who are different than us, who make different choices than we do, and teach them how to respond, THEN we have hope of developing strong children who possess tolerance-and above that, kindness.

ETA: I also believe that helping someone else, even who is living a lifestyle you do not agree with, is an act of kindness and mercy. Jesus did NOT tell people to turn their lives around and THEN seek him. Jesus gave them what they needed and in response to that love, people choose to--are compelled to--lead holy lives.